Jesus said an attitude of youthfulness was more than an option; it was a necessity for those who wanted to enter the kingdom of heaven:
At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:1-4)
What did Jesus mean here when He said we must “become like children” in order to enter the kingdom of heaven? It clearly had something to do with submission; Jesus immediately described the importance of humbling oneself in the very next line. As I examine this passage, I can’t help but think of my grandparents and their ability to connect with people more than four decades their junior. They had, in many ways, “become like children”; they possessed a humble nature that I’ve struggled to understand and describe over the years. I think I’ve isolated two features of this childlike humility that might be helpful for those of us who want to “become like children” so we too can mentor and guide the young Christians in our lives:
People Who Are “Young At Heart” Are Passionate
If there’s one feature of young people that seems to separate them most from their older counterparts, it’s passion. I noticed this immediately when I transitioned from the role of Youth Pastor to Lead Pastor. You want to lead a two day missions trip to Skid Row to evangelize the homeless? You’re youth group will get fired up and turn out in droves. Adult groups? Not so much. Young people are excited; they’re up for almost any challenge. They’re passionate and fearless. Adults are often more measured, tentative and uninterested. Jesus knew that people who are uninterested and dispassionate about the kingdom of heaven won’t even care enough to listen to the plan of Salvation. You have to be passionately interested in God before you’re going to be willing to search for Him.
People Who Are “Young At Heart” Are Teachable
Young people are also ready to learn. They’re surrounded by older folks who demonstrate a higher level of proficiency in nearly every aspect of life. They want to know what we know and they are eager to surpass us. They are humble enough to know there’s a bunch of stuff out there they still need to master and they are willing to tackle new challenges. Older folks sometimes settle into a rhythm as we learn just enough to effectively work and sustain our lives. We fall into a comfortable pattern and start to think we know everything we need to know. We seldom push ourselves into unfamiliar territory. After several years, we’ve forgotten many of the disciplines we had as young, eager students. We become more settled and stubborn over time; we’re less and less teachable.
Now that I’m over 50, youthfulness has become ever more important to me (I’m not ashamed to confess this). My body reminds me that I’m aging and there’s not much I can do to reverse that physical reality. But I can do something about my attitude. As an old guy with white hair, I still want to reach and prepare young Christians. This is the one group all of us, as Christian Case Makers, ought to be targeting. But I know I can’t reach them on the basis of my physical appearance, my taste in music or my skills on a surfboard. I’m going to have to be “young at heart” and “become like a child." I need to be passionate and teachable. When students see my passion and humility as a learner, they are far more likely to be passionate learners themselves. I may not dress like them, talk like them, or listen to their music, but I am passionate about them and I want to learn with them. My grandparents modeled this for me, and I want to model this forward to the young people I train.
J,
Took a look at the article you linked to and also authored. I think the main point you're getting at is sound. I would argue, however, that whether you label it as "teaching" or "training" the reason you see record numbers of young people running away from Christianity would has more to do with the diluted Gospel that we've been teaching/training them over the last few decades.
In other words, one of the trends in recent years has been to use "carnal means to attract carnal men" to the church, as folks like Paul Washer would say. The outgrowth of that is that a whole generation of young people have grown up in a "carnal church" under the message that "you don't have to be any different than the world around you," and at that point many see no reason why they should waste their time any longer.
Having grown up like this and witnessed it first hand, instead of seeking ways in which to honor the Lord with our lives, we've been brought up to actually seek ways in which to be like the world, under the guise of "identifying" with them and "meeting them where they're at." Sounds good, but Biblically destitute.
For some reason I always think of the example in Luke 24 on the Emmaus road. The two disciples are quoted as saying, "Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, and while he opened to us the Scriptures?" I think that points to the idea that whenever God's truth is espoused to true believers, whether they be young or old, the Holy Spirit develops an affinity and thirst for more of the Word as a response.
Then comes your charge to train them, I think both by sound instruction and teaching in the Word (explaining "the way of God more accurately"), but also as you indicated by ourselves being passionate and humble as fellow labourers with them so as to model for them an example of a Godly life, just as your grandparents did for you.
Posted by: k | June 06, 2013 at 02:48 PM